Posted by jay on January 25, 2005, at 15:54:24
In reply to Re: Pls help..more of Jay's on-line dating adventures. » jay, posted by Snoozin on January 25, 2005, at 13:05:52
> Hi, Jay,
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> Yeah, I think it's time to blow her off. I'm sorry. Phone busy on *one* night you said you'd call? Maybe just a freak thing. But *several* nights?
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> When I was internet dating, I would carry on e-mail and phone conversations with several men at once, because I didn't know if *any* of them might lead somewhere or not....I was perfectly honest about this with the guys, though. This really isn't my nature, but I had allowed myself to get a little *goo goo* over a guy here or there, and so excluded even e-mailing any other guys, only to have that *cool* guy end up acting like a jerk.
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> But this woman is being disrespectful to you, and how a relationship starts, that's generally how it continues. So if her not answering the phone when you guys have a *phone date* bothers you, it will continue to do so.....
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> Stop calling. Look elsewhere. Her loss. :-)
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> Susan
>
>Thanks Susan :-) You are right, it will just become a cycle and I will get stuck in it. No need for me to do that! I also am very, very good with my instincts about people, and it seems like she is possibly beating around the bush in a few areas. "So and so did this and that and I did this and that.." and some of these stories just go on. With me, it's pretty plain and simple (as it is with most people's lives) when it comes to life stories...not some carried-out major melodramas with very weird unanswered questions. So...time to move on..yes...
Thank you :)
Jay
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