Posted by Itsme2003 on December 7, 2004, at 13:32:18
In reply to What's it really like having a significant other?, posted by Angela2 on December 1, 2004, at 18:50:14
I think all the previous posts had lots of good advice. The only thing that I can add is this. You need some amount of chemistry. You don't need a roaring bonfire, but you should at least have a campfire.
If there is no sexual attraction at all then you would be doing yourself and the guy a favor to not go on with the relationship.
If you are still going to go out with him then you should fully disclose your lack of sexual attraction to him and continue to repeat this disclosure from time to time. He will probably be confused and not really accept it when you tell him, but at least you've done the right thing.