Posted by TexasChic on August 23, 2004, at 11:03:43
In reply to So how did it go, TexasChic and Poet? (nm), posted by gardenergirl on August 21, 2004, at 7:37:08
Mine went okay. Actually, the interview went well, but I thought the guy I would be working with was kind of a jerk. But I could learn alot if I were to get that job. So we'll see.
The sh!t hit the fan this morning. After S pulled her little stunt of trying to get me in trouble, I tried again to get her to talk to me this weekend. I know, everybody said to just leave her alone, but I felt like leaving her alone was making things worse instead of better. So I wrote her a note saying I was sorry to hear about the break-in, was there anything I could do to help, and can we get together and talk in order to make things go smoother at work. Well, I got no response, I tried knocking on the door but she wouldn't open it, I tried calling her and she wouldn't answer. This morning I asked her what her problem was, and she yelled at me that she was not going to discuss this with me, don't call her, don't leave her notes, and don't come by her house. You know, I don't even want to be friends with her anymore, I just don't want someone hating me for something I don't even know about. Its frusterating. And I think she knows that and is using it.
Anyway, I talked to my boss, she's still being kind of weird, She keeps saying I'm not making my deadline, when I know I did. What can I do, tell her she's lying? But I told her I would really try, and this has just been really hard with S, someone I considered my closest friend for the past year suddenly won't speak to me and I don't even know why. She said she understood, and that it is hard. So I really don't know how to read her, I'm just trying to keep this job until I can get another.
I feel so out of control emotion wise. Why can't I handle this correctly? My boss even said, so she won't talk to you, so what, who cares? Don't let it affect your whole life. Of course that's what I've been trying to do, I just haven't quite got there yet.
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