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Childish?

Posted by littlep24 on June 19, 2004, at 12:00:10

Ever since I have known my husband he as thought I was childish and I would grow out of it as our marriage grew, he is 7 years older than me. Here we are 8 years into the marriage and that childish way of dealing with issues is still there. Example, today is my best friends sons 1st birthday party. We have known about it for a month. My husband is recently sober for 6 months so any party could be hard for him and my best friends husband doesn't know he is a recovering, well step up and deal with that by being honest instead of trying to hide it. He never said a peep before today about not wanting to go. Today his sister calls him, she closed on a house yesterday and asked if he wanted to take a ride to PA (from NJ) to see the house. This was an out for him because he didn't want to be around others who were drinking. If my sister called the day of there would of been hell to pay that she thinks we should just drop everything for her but it is ok for his family.(major issue) Instinctively the answer should have been no but he decided to ask me if I cared. Well of course I care for that fact that it is my best friends and not wanting to have to worry about watching both the kids at a party on my own it is a family event. I told him, whatever, he said your not gonna get made and I said I will get over it. However, I feel like he should of known how I felt and made the decision on his own to go to the party. I guess this was kinda a headgame for me instead of out right saying I will be made. This is the way I deal with things. Childish? Then when he tried to talk to me 15 minutes later I went off on him that he made the choice to go with his sister and he said but I asked you and I said but you knew the answer and the outcome, that I would be mad. Childish?


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