Posted by Karen_kay on April 21, 2004, at 17:54:32
In reply to Oh and one more........., posted by kid47 on April 21, 2004, at 10:39:01
kid,
that's a wonderful quote. and there's nothing wrong with choosing the path that causes the least amount of confict for the parties involved. in fact, that seems to work for most people and provides the greatest amount of happiness for all.
some people say i'm too impulsive and don't really think before i act. however, i don't tend to wonder 'what if..' either. yes, i worry, and i worry often. but, i don't very often wonder about scenarios involving my life and what could have or should have been. however, perhaps if i take a bit less of those 'risks' i wouldn't find myself in those situations i often talk to my therapist about. and i would have a bit more stability in my life than i do right now. and kk really strives for that stability, you know.
perhaps there's a happy medium? maybe, maybe not. i suppose that's what life is all about. finding out and learning through experience. and like you said, perhaps you'll figure it out tomorrow.
good luck kid, and mabe you could start taking those risks by not supporting your head while you sleep at work in your chair. i think sleeping in your chair at work is quite a risk to take, don't you? i mean, suppose you were to fall out of your chair and hit your precious head on your desk dear. that would be quite a shame. could you at least get an air mattress and sleep on the floor? or rest your head on the desk? or at least have a coworker watch you sleep to be sure you don't hurt yourself? be careful about sleeping in your chair kid. as precious as it is, i still worry about the possible risks involved.
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