Posted by jay on March 24, 2004, at 20:59:30
In reply to Re: Spring Fever and Sexy Women... » jay, posted by Karen_kay on March 24, 2004, at 12:27:50
Ahhhhh..well thank you so much Kk. :-) Ya, that is one thing, sometimes I do have the “gift of the gab”...and I am a deep romantic, and like to make great impressions.(Ironic for and SP'er, eh?..heh.) I went through a *lot* with my last “steady” girlfriend, which has been over 5 years ago. (Yes I’ve dated in between...but never enough!)
The first date we went on..it was June, and I *really* took to her, so I wanted to make a great impression. We took off early in the day, and walked and hiked a bit through a beautiful park/nature reserve, with waterfalls, gardens and trees. We talked..and talked...and talked. Then, I took her to Toronto, and we went up in the C.N. Tower, had a beautiful Italian dinner and drinks at a classy restaurant, and even did a bit of shopping. :-) By then it was late evening, so driving back towards home, I suggested a stop at a beautiful spot at a beach on Lake Ontario. Full stars out...moonlight...and a beautiful stroll. That turned into a 3 year relationship. So, that’s not too bad for a guy with SP, eh?..heh. Sorry..don’t mean to be nostalgic...and *not* egotistical...but I’d like to think I have always
treated women very, very well...with lots of respect. Oh...and in case you are wondering...yes I *am* over her...but it was a wonderful learning experience....and that includes the good, and the sometimes rough and bad. (P.S. I also never talk about an “ex” when on a date..just so you don’t think that is the case.)So what do you think? Do guys who are spontaneous and romantic impress you?How about other gals here? I know it isn’t always the case for many woman, as it seems, really, women are often the smart ones and like to take things very, very slowly. And no...I don’t mean being ‘romantic’ just to wind up in the sack on the second date..heh. :-) This question *always* intrigues me...as there are so many different answers out there from all sorts of woman. I’d also like to think that after surviving almost ten years of SP, major depression and anxiety, that I am proud of myself for keeping the ‘spark’ alive. I am also going to start getting back in better shape via exercise, the gym, etc. Not that I am too bad now....but I wanna look good in my ‘short-pants’ jeans and nice Tommy shirts fer da summer. I am gonna go back to my “military style” haircut of a buzz-cut, as it feels so good in the hot summer, and certain women seem to prefer that. (I am usually decked out in a baseball cap too...dressed up like a teenager, and I get asked for ID..heh.)
OK..I have *rambled* on wayyyy too long. Me shut up now. I may just take up your offer, though...:-)
Sincerely,
Jay
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