Posted by LynneDa on January 8, 2004, at 16:56:06
In reply to I did the right thing, I hope., posted by daydreamer on January 7, 2004, at 16:30:03
Daydreamer - I'm sorry to hear of your break-up. I'm sure that was one of the hardest decisions you've ever made! My heart goes out to you!
I'm sure you've thought this all through. But, I hope your partner agrees that this was best. You can't dictate what another person is willing to take on emotionally :-). Hang in there! Time will tell whether you did the right thing. But people are amazing. We all are. My husband says I give him other things that make up for some of the bad stuff he has to go through with me! Who'da thunk that?!? There are ways through counseling that you can learn to cope with a person who has "issues" (& who doesn't); granted some issues are harder than others to deal with and love isn't always enough . . . but again, people are very resilient, as we can all attest who are still here!!!
Your life is what you make it. I trust that you will be okay either way.
poster:LynneDa
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