Posted by Jai Narayan on December 19, 2003, at 12:37:21
In reply to Re: Rampant miscommunication? » tabitha, posted by Larry Hoover on December 19, 2003, at 10:06:16
Dear Larry
<< Honestly I am a fool to step into the conflict …"but here I go"….(to quote Donkey in Shrek)
I re-read both your posts and got how you both were talking about different stuff.
I also see now how you both are hurt from this miscommunication.
>>If you won't believe a sincere statement, then there's nothing I can do to reach you. I'm going to put on my teflon suit now and let your analysis of my faulty thought process roll off me like water.
>>I regret any exacerbation of the situation, but I don't like having words put into my mouth.
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.>>My mind is going nuts trying to figure it out-- am I suddenly not seeing things clearly? Is everyone hypersensitive this time of year? It feels like I'm in a strange dream where everything is just a bit skewed.
<<Where in here is she asking for an analysis of her communication? I think she may have wanted empathy for her feelings.
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>> I thought maybe it was me. But if others are reporting this, then I think that perhaps my "mixed message" theory may be valid.
<<It looks like you are saying: **It's you**
>>I think that perhaps my "mixed message" theory may be valid.
>>(you implied I was saying your thinking is faulty)...
<<So where is this implied?
I hope you don't see me as being a big jerk for responding. I just thought it might help? Famous last words....
poster:Jai Narayan
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