Re: vulnerable answer » Jai Narayan

Posted by Larry Hoover on November 30, 2003, at 11:38:29

In reply to vulnerable answer, posted by Jai Narayan on November 30, 2003, at 9:11:57

I'm gonna lump these together..
> > What's up Jai? Did I do something wrong?
> No I thought I did and that's why you were not responding to my playful invitations.
An invitation is just that....I don't feel chatty. I don't feel silly.
> I thought I had found a person I could be silly with...I can learn how to do this.
Sometimes, I guess.

> > Whatever.
> I guess I am so new to this that I don't know the flow and ebb.
The reason I like this environment is that I have control over my degree of interaction. That's about me.
> Sorry Larry
What for?
> Peace?
Sure.

> Dear Larry, I like you. I was sad that you didn't answer my posting. I missed your input on the site. I was excited by our connection, maybe too much so. You have caught my imagination and attention and I wanted the exploring to continue but when you said you were tired and then dissapeared well I got sad.
Please respect my non-response as a response. That's all. I'm glad you missed me. I'm glad you like me. That other guy will be back, eventually.
> I reverted to being a child with you, it was so sweet and open. but your door seemed closed. I may be all wet and wrong but it looked like a closed door.
I'm not answering the knock on the door.
> > Whatever.
> I am confused by the whatever...what does that really mean? It sounds so flat.
It is.

> > Lar
> I want to stay friends...I want to stay connected. I miss you.
> Jai Narayan
Fine. But it has to be on my terms too.
Lar

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calling Larry Hoover***Lar, you-who.............yo Jai Narayan 11/29/03
all right Larry forget it. no more. I will stop. (nm) Jai Narayan 11/29/03
Re: all right Larry forget it. no more. I will stop. » Jai Narayan Larry Hoover 11/30/03
I was hurt cuz you didn't play with me.....peace? Jai Narayan 11/30/03
vulnerable answer Jai Narayan 11/30/03
Re: vulnerable answer » Jai Narayan Larry Hoover 11/30/03
yup, it's a deal..thanks for responding (nm) Jai Narayan 11/30/03
A great example of communication and boundaries (nm) fallsfall 11/30/03
Re: vulnerable answer » Larry Hoover Elle2021 11/30/03
Re: yup, it's a deal..thanks for responding » Jai Narayan Larry Hoover 12/1/03
Re: vulnerable answer » Elle2021 Larry Hoover 12/1/03
I'm your friend, Lar Jai Narayan 12/1/03
Re: vulnerable answer » Larry Hoover EscherDementian 12/2/03
Re: vulnerable answer » EscherDementian Larry Hoover 12/4/03

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