Posted by fallsfall on August 8, 2003, at 13:03:22
In reply to Re: Anyone know of a support site for spouses? » lostsailor, posted by Dinah on August 8, 2003, at 9:48:14
Dinah,
I may be totally out of line here, and if I am please say so.
Does your husband want support? Or do you want him to have support (i.e. to make you feel less guilty?)?
You are in a mood of "I am a burden on the world". But your husband said that he and your son were happy to have you there. I'm happy to have you here. If the problem is that you feel like a burden, the solution is for you to figure out how to feel less like a burden - to have your view of yourself match the world's better. The solution is not for your husband to agree that you are a burden.
If I'm wrong, just tell me so.
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