Posted by fallsfall on August 7, 2003, at 11:18:31
In reply to Re: I'm sorry to be so melodramatic :(, posted by Dinah on August 7, 2003, at 10:44:52
You have just found your third option. If you make up the $30 and have no discretionary money then it works. It isn't any fun to have no discretionary money, but that might be more fun than working more hours or therapy once a week.
I, too, have heard that children do better with their own parents than others who are "better". And I believe it. Children also don't do well if they have to go through the death of a parent.
It is so hard to get those thoughts out of your head. You can tell yourself, at least, that you WON'T act on them so maybe you can decide that they are a waste of time. I'm so glad you have promised your therapist that you would let him help.
Your pain is cyclical. It will decrease. You have to figure out how to survive until it does.
(((((Dinah)))))
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