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Re: Specific post to Canadian women about separati » tina

Posted by wendy b. on June 30, 2003, at 23:46:47

In reply to Specific post to Canadian women about separation, posted by tina on June 29, 2003, at 12:30:47

> I addressed this post to the canadian women out there who have gone through a marriage breakdown. I need some support here. I'm very dependent and have been both emotionally and financially on my husband and now he's gone and I'm really feeling quite out of control.
> I just need someone who has been through it or is going through it and can talk to me from the woman's point of view.
> My email is hystoree166 @ yahoo.com
> No offense intended to all you americans, it's just that your laws aren't the same. However, I'd still love a woman's input no matter where you are from. It's not just the financial stuff I need help with, it's the emotional upheaval this is all causing.
> thank you to anyone who responds
> tina


Tina,

Just wanted you to know I hear you - on this post & the one below. I had hoped you wouldn't crash, but this 2nd suicide you mention would make ANYbody feel out of control, even if they weren't going thru a traumatic breakup...

I am in the middle of a move (think I told you), LOTS of upheaval there, and then: lo and behold! I was served with divorce papers last week... this after 9 full years of being separated! It's finally come to him that we need to do this. I needed this now like I need a hole in the head... just one more f__ing thing to take care of. As for me, it was all just as well we weren't divorced, cuz of medical insurance, etc. and my meds are very expensive, as you know I'm sure. So if I lose my insurance coverage, I'll be spending thousands of dollars a year. Don't know if my depression/bipolar is considered a pre-existing condition or not. So I'm not in Canada, but the issues are still the same: finances, roof over one's head, insurance, pension. It's the feeling of insecurity that gets me so down.

Be well - if I don't write, it's cuz I'm stuck in a closet somewhere, head buried in my old yearbook or something... (when I should be packing!)

love,
W.


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