Posted by Dinah on June 22, 2003, at 18:05:42
In reply to Very long rant. Sorry., posted by kalyb on June 22, 2003, at 12:19:35
Kalyb, that situation is toxic for you. I'm glad you're trying to get away. You're letting her opinion of you color your opinion of yourself. Noa is right, keep it businesslike, try to get the eviction notice, and get out. Other than getting the documentation you need, don't try with her any more.
By the way, I do understand the wish for a label. Something to help you organize your own experiences better. But whatever the label is, I hope you try to be a bit gentler with yourself. You're doing the best you can in a difficult situation. You don't need yourself berating you too.
Take care,
Dinah
poster:Dinah
thread:235513
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20030617/msgs/236092.html