Posted by whiterabbit on May 11, 2003, at 11:58:04
I hope Dr. Bob doesn't put me on notice for not being civil to myself but man, am I dumb. How many times do I have to be taught the same lesson?
I hope this is the last time I have to learn this particular lesson.After my STBEH (soon-to-be ex-husband) had a heart attack last week, I brought everything to the hospital that I could think of to make him comfortable - clean clothes, toiletries, newspapers, magazines, decent coffee, mints, etc.
When he was discharged on Thursday, I drove him home from the hospital. I cleaned up his room and changed the sheets on his bed. Then I drove to the store and picked up his prescriptions and some groceries. I made him a healthy dinner and even brought him juice and hot chocolate before he went to bed.In the morning when I got up, he was gone. All of his friends called looking for him since he was supposed to be off work and at home resting, so obviously he was with his girlfriend. Yesterday he did the same...left early and came home late, without an explaination or a thank-you for anything I had done. I don't know what I expected, but I feel like the Queen of All Fools.
8-(
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