Posted by shar on May 4, 2003, at 23:31:53
In reply to Re: Psychs vs. Norms, posted by coral on May 4, 2003, at 19:39:23
what Coral said...are you done, too?
And, a note...it is strange but true that often times marriages/relationships don't fall through during the bad times (trauma of whatever origin), but once things are on the mend. Like the woman who ousts her alcoholic husband after years of hell, and he sobers up and starts a new life. So, the woman who hung in gets the shaft.
It just seems similar, because you have been doing so much better, and you hchchhhusband decides now that he doesn't want to continue the marriage. And betrays you.
If I didn't know any better, I'd wonder if there was some unconscious motivation on his part to get you back to where you were, so things could go back to normal. But, that's pure speculation.
I am feeling for you lots. Norms? Keep em.
Shar
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