Posted by bluedog on March 29, 2003, at 1:03:19
In reply to Re: This old dog is back in the henhouse! » bluedog, posted by Tabitha on March 29, 2003, at 0:11:28
> Dog! Glad to hear you're bouncing back..
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> Dogs, hens, um, oh, I can't think of anything clever to do with that right now.
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> I'm in my up season, and choosing to manage it differently rather than adding meds. I realized the other day, I do have a lot of skills for self-management, I just have to make an effort, knowing the meds are not doing so much of the work for me anymore. So far so good. I feel much more alive, and I'm sleeping without nightly sedating meds.
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> Are you keeping up with yoga class and yoga girl? I'm having major urge to indulge in a just for fun summer fling, just have to find a likely prospect. My therapist even approves of my plan to seduce some unsuspecting guy. What can I say... it's been a long time.
>Hmmm, what can you say? Well I can tell you that if you just want a summer fling you have one HUGE advantage...and that is that that you are female.
I have just recently watched a 4 part BBC series called "Human Instinct" presented by Professor Robert Winston who did that fantastic TV series called "the Human Body".
Anyway in part 4 of "Human Instinct" he repeated an experiment that was initially conducted at a USA University and the results were identical to that experiment.
Basically they got a guy and a girl to approach complete strangers of the opposite sex on a university campus and say the following:-
"Hi I couldn't help noticing you as you were walking past and I think you are really attractive and I'm just wondering if you'd like to go out with me tonight and go to bed/have sex with me"
The results were as follows.
The number of girls approached by the guy that agreed to have sex that night with a complete stranger was Nil/Nix/Zero. They just didn't respond to that kind of approach.
The number of guys approached by the girl that agreed to go to bed that night with a complete stranger was 75-80% of the guys.
This experiment apparently has been repeated many times over and the results are amazingly consistent.
So in answer to your question as to what you should say or do. Well if you make the move, being female you have a 75-80% chance of getting a date with your unsuspecting victim by simply approaching him, letting him know that you couldn't help noticing him and that you find him atractive. Then simply ask whether he'd like to go out with you. (I don't believe you would even need to be as forward as asking whether they would you like to go to bed with you if that would make you uncomfortable...just ask him out and see what develops from there....believe me you will be holding all the cards)
But PLEASE be careful.....you don't want to approach a complete stranger who happens to be some type of psychopath. Maybe approach a guy you've already had some contact with and know a little about already.
As you can see you girls hold all the power and I'm really jealous. Lot of guys would love to be approached by the girl to be asked on a date. I wish Yoga Girl would do this to me.
Yes I still have my crush on Yoga Girl...you can see how that's been going in my response in the thread started by Bozeman below.
seeya Tabby and good luck
bluedog
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