Posted by ROO on February 27, 2003, at 9:28:59
In reply to It's always so embarassing, posted by Dinah on February 27, 2003, at 3:42:45
Do you really think you acted _that_ badly, or
do you think you're exaggerating a bit?Even so, sometimes I'm a little relieved when my
friends "show their ass" so to speak, or throw fits
of some sort...some part of me is like "whew! I'm glad
I'm not the only one who's crazy in this world"....
Takes the pressure off to always have to be perfect....Sometimes, when I act "badly" I can even laugh at myself, be
surprised at my own "wildness" and unpredictability and inability
to be "contained" at all times.........it shows there's a certain
passion in us...we're not damn robots........(As long as I'm not calling
my best friend a bitch or something like that...I'm talking more like
throwing a fit and slamming doors, etc)....Don't shame yourself....there's a little child in you that needed
to do this....maybe ask the little child what it needs, what it wants, and
then she won't feel the need to act out so much....but don't shame her.
poster:ROO
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