Posted by Tabitha on February 2, 2003, at 17:00:30
In reply to Re: Please don't misunderstand., posted by Dinah on February 2, 2003, at 11:04:45
I see the same thing, Dinah. It does seem like the person who is brave enough to voice their hurt or offense is often criticized for it (on this board and elsewhere). Bugs me too. To put it in perspective-- I think what usually happens is that nobody wants to be seen as hurtful, so their defense is to invalidate the feelings of the hurtee. Sad for all involved.
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