Posted by Dinah on October 8, 2002, at 8:58:36
In reply to Son gets the blues when looking at girls, posted by lawrence s. on October 7, 2002, at 21:37:59
You can tell him that "beautiful" girls being interested in "popular" boys is not particularly different from your son being interested in "beautiful" women.
You can tell him to look for those women who are beautiful all the way down to their cores, who are deep and warm and caring, and who think there are more important things than popularity.
And you can tell him not to worry about how "popular" boys treat "beautiful girls" but to concentrate on who he is. Because when the beautiful to the core, deep caring girl looks at him, he'll want to be the attractive to the core deep caring guy she'd like to be with.
At least that's what I'd tell my son.
Dinah
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