Posted by judy1 on August 27, 2002, at 17:19:32
In reply to Re: Don't worry Tabitha. » Dinah, posted by ~~tabitha~~ on August 27, 2002, at 14:09:38
Well my therapist is back from vacation, thank god for that. She reminded me of reality in this situation. The
unpleasant thing is here I was getting hung up on a 27-yr old, meanwhile the other man in my life is 72. Could it
get any more inappropriate? That middle ground eludes me. Where are the 40-something guys? I really need a
real social life, do I ever.I think the 40 something men are doing their mid-life crisis(s) with the 20 something women.i have a great friend who is on her 4th marriage and is close to 50 (but on her u-turn), anyway before this marriage she had her boy toys (i was jealous and i'm 15 years younger then her) to play with, and then when she re-married, he's 10 years older. So i think it depends what you want- if you just want to play, nothing is wrong with the 20 year old guys (and yes this is California, Ted :-), but if the biological clock is ticking and you want family, why not go younger? i really don't think the double-standard applies anymore to women- just enjoy yourself- judy
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