Posted by SusanG on April 29, 2002, at 7:38:19
In reply to I'm so sorry..... » kazoo, posted by judy1 on April 29, 2002, at 3:51:05
Kazoo, Judy is so right, the forgiveness is for you, to help you lessen your very justified anger and hatred that are tearing you up. It could free you from at least some of this horrible pain you are in. I know it is difficult to hear the "f" word right now, so don't think of it as "forgiving". Think of it as releasing yourself from the pain and the powerful hold this person has on you; she is not worth the emotional toll you are paying. I really think you could benefit from reading that book (listening to it on tape is even better)even though I'm sure the concept of forgiving is one you can't or don't want to imagine. But please consider doing it for you. 'Nuff said by me on this.
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