Posted by waterlily on April 6, 2002, at 21:07:49
In reply to Re: Do you talk about therapy with friends/family? » waterlily, posted by Mair on April 5, 2002, at 20:26:55
> Why do you think your husband would disagree with your therapist?
>
> MairI'm super sensitive to what my hubby thinks about things. He has made suggestions in the past that I ought to find a new therapist because I am not tons better than I was the same time last year when I started therapy. If he disagrees with my therapist I would automatically think that he does not trust me to make good decisions for myself and that he knows more than my therapist. Whatever things I feel more positive about due to therapy get shot to pieces if he disagrees with them and I'm back at square one.
I do say waaay more to my therapist than I do to my hubby because I've got nothing to lose if I tick off my therapist, but if I do the same with my hubby, I'm stuck with the possibility of him leaving me. Perhaps my father's when I was 14 leaves me with an abnormally high fear of being abandoned. Just a thought.
Thanks for your help :-)
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