Posted by sid on April 2, 2002, at 9:26:27
Hi all.
Well, it was Easter last weekendm so of course I had to suffer through a family reunion. Nobody goes to church anymore in the family, but my sister ALWAYS insists on family reunions on hollidays. Then she complains that she does everything, that it's boring (hello! I was there, I KNOW that much!), and that she'd rather have done something else. Family responsibilities always fall on her. The thing is, she's the only one who wants these reunions.And her wonderful husband who hates women except when it's to f*** them, the joy of being around him. His own son refuses to see his girlfriend sit next to him at the dinner table - I guess he molests her too. All the women sit at one end of the table and he's surrounded by men. My sister doesn't mind, I guess. And every time he behaves reproachably (always!), she calls me back the next day and tells me I should laugh more at his jokes, it would make him in a better mood. I feel like asking: when should I laugh? Before, during or after he touches me inappropriately or masturbates in front of me? See, I'm not sure what's funny about that, so she'd need to explain the humor of it to me.
She started therapy recently, and now she blames my mother for all her problems. Her husband just retired and he is driving her crazy at home. He even said that if she did not go to therapy, he'd leave her. So she goes. She discusses therapy with him and so now, he blames my mother for everything too and he laughs at me all the time (although that's not new). He made sure to isolate her from my brother and his wife a while back and now the same is happening with us. Since I live with my mother, I can't throw them out, but as soon as I can afford to have my own place, man, I'll kick them out.
All this to say that family reunions with them always anger me for days. I though her therapy would help her gett better but she's only getting deeper into his crap. Love is blind, that's for sure. I pray never to fall in love again because it makes you make a fool of yourself.
Wonderful family. You gave me life and you've been sucking it back since. I never loved my sister and at times I even hate her. She hated me for being born and has been putting me down since. Even laughed when her husband put his thick disgusting tongue down my throat when I was 8. I guesss she'd have to explain the humor of that to me too.
- sid
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