Posted by beardedlady on March 13, 2002, at 12:14:27
In reply to Gracie ST re: mantrap, posted by trouble on March 13, 2002, at 10:43:43
I still think a dumping is in order. I would never let anyone take me for granted. I have an enormous ego and just wouldn't tolerate it. If I were so oh-my-god in love with the guy, I might let him do it once, but then I'd give him the ol' tomato. If he didn't come through, he'd be yesterday's toast.
As with my best girlfriend of two decades, I told her the way it was, and she didn't come through. So buh-bye. Is it painful? Yes, but it's a transient pain. And that's gone now too. I feel much better about myself when I hang around with people who feel good about me!
Of course, it's a lot easier to feel this way when you don't have to worry about dating! I've been married for almost nine years after living with the guy for eleven. I've been out of the dating biz for nearly two decades.
Maybe having the "I am great" attitude will keep the men from treating you as if you are anything less than great!
beardy : )>
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