Posted by Phil on March 4, 2002, at 6:25:23
In reply to Re: Haven't been posting. Addictive relatonship, posted by Shar on March 3, 2002, at 21:34:06
trouble and Shar, Thanks for y'all's wisdom on this. Shar, you're right in that I always hold in or deny the anger but if something sets it off, we do all have our hot-buttons, I go nuts. But mostly on email! This is the first time in my life that I wish email was NEVER invented.
There was no innocent party in this relationship but I'll acknowledge my 50-65%! I just don't want people to hurt because of things I have said.
The strange part, Shar, is that when I wrote it was like I was...I can't explain it other than I was so detatched from it all. Like in a rush of some sort-not thinking, just writing. Like not even conscious of it in a way. But, like I told her...I hit the send button.
I would like to hear people talk about their experiences, if similar to mine.
I guess a lot of us have stayed long after we should.Thanks again
poster:Phil
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