Posted by Shar on December 17, 2001, at 13:58:54
In reply to HELP ON TRUST, posted by Drewsprt23 on December 17, 2001, at 10:30:27
(this is not a kinder, gentler response)
Actions speak louder than words. The way to earn her trust is to not lie to her.
How did she find out you lied to her? If you told her you lied it sounds like a mind fu*k to me. If she found out on her own, she is one smart cookie.
I would say if you've lied previously and easily, you ARE capable of doing so again unless you make a decision and a commitment not to. But, I bet you knew that already.
Up to you.
Shar
> Hello Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and 6
> months. I lied to her, which were small white lies.
> I lied to her when we first went out about me being a life
> guard another being a gucci model, and the fact of her feeling
> betrayed of her trust. Like a month ago a girl called and i told
> her it was someone else. But it has been a month things have
> been good and i do not want to lie to her ever again. I want to
> be open with her. I love her to death. She still feels i am
> capable of lieing.What can I do to reassure her I wont lie again?
> What can I do? Cause I dont want to lose her.
>
> Depressed Drew
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