Posted by Mair on December 1, 2001, at 21:42:57
In reply to Feelin' rather stupid..., posted by Kristi on December 1, 2001, at 21:21:20
Kristi - maybe it felt a little awkward because he's not the right guy - and how would you really know that unless you had that conversation? Don't feel stupid - maybe just somewhat wiser.
Mair
PS I have this college roommate who used to be my best friend. We lost touch for quite awhile. Then I got a letter from her out of the blue a few years ago. I didn't write back because I was in the fog of depression. By the time I got back to her it was about 2 years later and she never responded to that letter. About a month ago or so I wrote her again. Still no response. I hold on to this memory of a very close friendship and this illusion that I can repair some of the damage done by my depression. Maybe my memory is rosier than it should be and just too much time has passed. I'm not sure this is at all like your situation, but it does seem hard sometimes to let go.
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