Posted by Kristi on August 26, 2001, at 16:12:42
In reply to Re: question about venting, posted by KB on August 26, 2001, at 15:15:42
I absolutely agree with you!!!!!! But, we have to be strong enough to not let statements like that bother us. Keep in mind the sources, and the naivety of the comments. Build your self esteem up to the point that these statements won't bother you. I know, I know, easier said than done, I realize.
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> I find them difficult to hear because it just seems to represent an absolute thoughtlessness on the part of the speaker - like they can't make the effort to think about what effect their words will have on me.
poster:Kristi
thread:10292
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