Posted by Cam W. on August 12, 2001, at 2:46:19
In reply to Re: Cam -- RIK, posted by Noa on August 11, 2001, at 10:11:04
Noa - I understood what you are saying in the PBA post, and I agree with you. Being a loose cannon, and shooting from the hip (as honestly as I can), does get me in a lot of trouble. I am starting counseling with a grief specialist, next week.
I still have intense, but (I believe) justifiable, anger focused on several people, who I thought were comrads. I guess that I have learned that you cannot wear your heart on your sleeve. Sometimes, honesty is not appreciated.
Everyone has their own agenda, and some do not care how much they hurt others. Destroying a career is a fairly juvenile act. This whole job situation is over me not giving unconditioned respect to a superior. I believe that the superior doesn't even realize that this whole situation is over demanded respect; I will not respect someone who hasn't earned my respect.
Respect is earned; you cannot buy it with someone's else's, or even your own, money. Respect is earned through one's actions towards others. For example, one must have the willingness and desire to go the extra mile for others; not out of "having to do it", but out of "wanting to do it."Noa, I respect you and your post, you are just pointing out the truth. Thanks.
Cam the Insomniac
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