Posted by coral on February 12, 2001, at 10:58:21
In reply to Willow, posted by allisonm on February 12, 2001, at 8:59:02
I may be the odd one out here, but I don't want my therapist as a friend. I respect him tremendously, find him insightful, respectful, intelligent, charming, warm, generous and intensely concerned about my welfare. All of the characteristics that would be desirable in a friend. However, I selfishly guard my therapeutic time to help me get better. I love the freedom of being able to say exactly what's on my mind without ANY of the concern one would have if speaking to a friend.
My gynecologist and I share the same social circle and are friends outside of the office. We were sitting together at a friend's wedding and he said, "It's hot in here." Turning to me, he continued, "Are you ovulating?" Laughing, I said, "How in hell would I know? You're the gynecologist!"
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