Posted by Dr. Bob on June 21, 2006, at 4:08:22
In reply to Re: Please rephrase » Larry Hoover, posted by gardenergirl on June 20, 2006, at 20:23:39
> I do not agree that sincerity is a feeling. I view it as a state. If it is a feeling, it's the others' feeling. The one being sincere or not. So, imo, there has not been a feeling expressed.
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> What I'm looking for, and this is my take on the way "I" statements work based on what I've read here and elsewhere, is how it feels to experience what you perceive as someone's insincerity.
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> To me, saying you experience an absence of another's state does not reflect something that comes from within. To me, that comes from external, i.e. the other person.
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> gardenergirlI agree. Larry, please give this another try:
> I do not feel sincerely apologized towards.
Thanks,
Bob
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