Posted by Asya on March 23, 2006, at 21:18:28
I know this sounds strange, but for cultural reasons, I am not really used to western dating with all its uncertainty. I am 27 and have never been in a long term relationship. About 2 months ago, I ran into a man I worked with at an old job for about a year. He was with someone else then, but is now single. We were at a party of mutual friends. We ended up having dinner together the following week. We went out w friends again a few weeks later, talked on the phone a bit, and then he ended up coming over and spending the night. We didn't have sex, but almost did. After that, we both got busy and didn't see each other. It's now more than two weeks later and we'll probably spend some time together this weekend. I guess I don't know if we're dating, still seeing other people, exclusive, what? Is it too premature to have this convo given that we have only hooked up once really? HELP! Advice would be appreciated. For the record, I still want to see other people. I am not ready just yet for a serious relshp. I am really afraid of losing out on meeting other guys. Is this crazy?? Am I totally nuts?? Am I freaking out about nothing?
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