Posted by gardenergirl on March 1, 2006, at 9:30:04
In reply to Re: lowering expectations--healthy? » gardenergirl, posted by annierose on February 28, 2006, at 16:57:28
Hi,
Yeah, I think this is definitely good grist for marriage counseling, and in our first session, it was very obvious that our anniversary, in particular, was still a painful subject for me. He admitted that he screwed up, but we still seem so far apart on how to deal with it.Maybe I just need to forgive and move on. That's so hard, though. It feels like such a loss. And I don't know how he could make it up to me, frankly. Or if he should. Or if he would. We could "celebrate" now, but it just seems weird and forced. The day is passed, you know?
Damn. Obviously this is still very upsetting for me. Damn damn damn.
At least I"m finally feeling better now that I'm on the right antibiotic.
But keep washing those hands!
Thanks,
gg
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