Posted by wanttobhappy on February 28, 2006, at 1:02:02
Well, my husband recently found my perscription for anti-depressant (I did'nt tell him I was back on them) He asked me how much they were (for the bill payments) and that was it. It has been weeks since then and not one word has he said on that subject. Does he not care? We have been through the whole depression thing before and did'nt talk about it then either. One of my biggest questions is how can he even begin to understand or even tolerate some of the fears and moods that come along with deppression without asking questions? Why does'nt he want to talk to me? We have always had communication issues but we can usually get our points across when they are important. I guess I could be to blame as I withheld the fact as long as I could. Last time I went on meds and I told my husband he never said a word. Not a "oh I did'nt know it was that bad" or "what are you on and what does it do" or "Do you want to see a therapist or pdoc" nothing absolutely nothing. He may have said oh, and to hear the lack of interest, concern, anger, fear, curiosity or total lack of emotion whatt so ever really hurt!! and I did'nt want to see or hear that again. I have been holding this in for so long I finally had to write it down just to get it off of my chest. I know it's long and rambling. Sorry
Laura
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