Posted by jonquiljo on January 27, 2006, at 4:16:05
In reply to Re: I want to be loved, posted by Judith22 on January 26, 2006, at 22:09:13
> But I keep thinking, well...maybe he's upset about it. And it's my fault.
No, its not your fault at all, as others have said. If he's upset - too damn bad for him. You want something more than a quick roll in the sheets.
>I just...I still like him. Even though he won't talk to me. And so i keep thinking that since I like him, maybe he will someday realize he likes me too. As a friend. Is that crazy talk too?
Its not crazy talk. Lots of women like "bad boys" - at least for a while. You know the ones that treat them like crap, and you know it. There's a p;sychology behind it - but frankly I never understood it. It drove me crazy when I was younger, and no woman would go out with me because I was too nice. In time, that will change.
From your previous post, its clear that you want more - a relationship - some affection, and caring. Hey, thats what anyone deserves - so hold out for it. Guys are a dime a dozen.
There are lots of horny guys on the Internet - looking for quick and easy sex But there are lots of real ones too.
Go find one of them - you'll be glad you did.
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