Posted by sunny10 on June 21, 2005, at 12:57:02
In reply to Re: marriage question, posted by happyflower on June 21, 2005, at 11:57:45
in my opinion, raising kids in a loveless environment is more damaging to their pysches than divorce.
Children live their lives like they watched their parents live theirs. Do you want your kids to wind up in a loveless marriage, feeling the same way you do?
I'm not saying that I think you and your hubby need to get divorced. But staying together "for the kids" is an antiquated idea.
My depression is caused by both nurture and nature. As such, I know now that I have passed this depressive gene to my son. But I will never allow him to have nurture reasons for his depression. I've learned too much to do that.
That is my humble opinion for what it's worth...
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