Posted by alexandra_k on January 19, 2005, at 20:14:37
In reply to Re: sadness and conflict » alexandra_k, posted by rainbowbrite on January 19, 2005, at 16:19:56
> Thats convenient.
Heh heh, thats a nice civil word for it ;-)
Yeah, it is convenient.> Do you ever dream of getting married and having a family?
Welll. I do think I would like to meet someone I really cared about and wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Someone who felt the same way about me. The actual getting married bit isn't really important to me. With respect to the family some times I think I would like to have kids but other times I don't think that would be a good idea for me or them.
I suppose I would like to meet someone one day who really really really wanted to have kids. Enough to want to be the primary caregiver or at least be prepared to look after them half of the time. Fact is there will always be times in my life where I would damage them. I don't want that to happen. I would need someone else to be able to be secure and stable for them. To meet their emotional needs when I cannot. In that case - yes, I would like to have kids. But it isn't really all that important to me. Maybe it will become more important as I get older...
> Seriously It is somkething i think i want but i don't know if thats becasue of social pressure or not.
Hmm. Tis hard to know :-)
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