Posted by SLS on October 1, 2016, at 9:36:12
In reply to Re: A borderline woman is living with me, posted by Lamdage22 on October 1, 2016, at 3:51:28
> She says that herself. She has trouble with distance and closeness. She got too close to me for my feeling.
Some people will diagnose themselves as borderline. If she simply likes you and is getting to close, then you could verbally set some boundaries. People with borderline do not handle rejection very well, though. They fear abandonment. She would possibly become very agitated and angry as a result. They might also have wild mood swings during the course of a single day. There is more, of course, but I am not very knowledgeable about borderline. You could go online and see if her behaviors match that of the diagnosis and learn how to cope with it. It is not easy.
- ScottSome see things as they are and ask why.
I dream of things that never were and ask why not.- George Bernard Shaw
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