Posted by Dr. Bob on July 5, 2014, at 22:09:40
In reply to Alexandra, posted by Partlycloudy on July 4, 2014, at 21:48:58
> I think I DO have to be more careful with what I share. That is it not the best outlet for me, ultimately. Especially when I am vulnerable. That's when I am likely to overlook the care in someone's reply, and only be able to see the contrariness. Dr. Bob may think this is something that can be accommodated or fixed somehow, but not necessarily.
What I wish is that those who saw contrariness in a post by you would sit at another table, and those who saw care would sit with you, and you would feel validated, and not alone, and they wouldn't feel alone, either.
Bob
a brilliant and reticent Web mastermind -- The New York Times
backpedals well -- PartlyCloudy
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