Posted by sigismund on September 22, 2011, at 22:20:53
In reply to in a relationship can one person make the other..., posted by B2chica on September 22, 2011, at 15:49:17
You can do this, as you know.
Life is like theatre where scenes are replayed and battles refought, propelled by some basic human energy. Are we trying to find a different resolution this time?
And of course you were not responsible for the original abuse, as again you know.
This is a very interesting subject. I am sure someone has expressed it well.
It brings to mind (in a quite different way) Frances Tustin's therapeutic formulation (psychodynamc, autism) 'The heartbreak which is at the centre of human existence must be experienced over and over in circles of ever widening maturity'.
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