Posted by Dinah on August 24, 2010, at 6:54:22
In reply to T #3, posted by pegasus on August 23, 2010, at 15:49:54
The energy match between you sounds good, and that match could also be there with another therapist whose style is more to your taste.
That being said, I can see my therapist saying something like that. He wouldn't have been condescending so much as trying to use humor to bring home a point. But I wasn't there and didn't hear the tone. Of course, my therapist's sense of humor does not always amuse me. I've gotten used to dismissing those moments of misattunement. Maybe too used to it. :)
Daisy's got a point about understanding why you are seeking therapy at this point being a good guide as to the best therapist for you at this point.
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