Posted by healingmysoul on July 9, 2010, at 14:25:38
In reply to Re: I still love my therapist, posted by widget on July 6, 2010, at 23:33:54
I know my t is happily married and would never do anything that would harm his marriage or others would find unethical. I will just say he serves on an ethics board and that is because he is a man of great ethics and integrity. I don't think of him in a romantic way; i have referred to it like a parent or older brother kind of "transference." He doesn't like to use the word "transference." he is very rogerian, but know I'm special to him. I don't think I will ever get anything else because of our situations. I have told him i wish i met him under other circumstances and he never commented on that. There are other things I would comment on, but don't feel comfortable putting them here.
I've tried to fire him, but he always takes me back, but come to the realization having him as my t is better than not having him at all..
Message me if you want to talk more. It's something I live with and have come to turns with..> I just returned from a trip and saw your message. Thanks! It does sound similar. It does make me wonder if "there is something this there." Are you still seeing your therapist? How did you handle the situation?
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> My feeling is he has given all he is willing to give and I must deal with it. It seems he almost says his feelings! It is quite frustrating. Widget
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