Posted by Nadezda on November 1, 2009, at 13:28:02
In reply to Re: I've been triggered again, posted by Deneb on October 31, 2009, at 20:50:07
I'm sending you peaceful and safe thoughts, Deneb.
I'm also sending them to myself.
The situation on babble is very difficult for all of us. I hope you can remember that everyone here has good intentions, and is acting in the best spirit that they can to make this a better place-- of if not babble, then their world as they conceive it. Most of us value this place and want it to succeed, even if we have different visions of how it needs to be.
Babble will not disappear; and even if we lose people, Deneb-- and I"m not saying that you are or will-- we can grow beyond that, and keep them with us, in our minds-- But don't think that this will necessarily happen. Turmoil sometimes strengthens a relationship-- or a place. Let's hope that happens here.
But most importantly, remember that whatever does happen here, you can keep the connections that matter to you-- and also find new ones, that can also matter. It's so important for us to remember that we aren't falling apart-- even if a place isn't as stable as we would wish-- or even if bad feelings surface at a moment.
Nadezda
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thread:923107
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