Posted by muffled on October 21, 2009, at 21:12:33
In reply to Re: Recording session- in secret, posted by jane d on October 21, 2009, at 0:15:49
I taped once w/old t and she didn't know.
I felt so guilty I had to tell her. She was unhappy.
She never said no, but never said yes either, so i didn't tape.
New T says yes to taping and I think she appreciates why I tape. She herself will ask if I am taping sometimes cuz I am not very present, and she says , well at least you can hear this on your tape if your not hearing it now !
Not all T's will allow taping. I guess for them it feels risky. Also taping is not good for all clients.
At this point it is good for me.
I think taping in secret undermines the honesty that should be there in the theraputic relationship.
Where is the trust? Two way street.
Good luck.
M
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