Posted by psychmom on June 15, 2009, at 21:03:28
Hi everyone,
Sorry it took me so long to do a "intro" post. I have been having some major issues with my t. He is going through some things personally and I have lashed out at him this week. How could he "encourage" me to talk about this stuff and then say see you in 3 weeks??? Isn't that cruel??
Having difficulty processing the situation. I have been going through issues that has brough up some past trauma, so he wanted me to talk about it last session. I told him prior to the session I wanted to wait until he could see me reguarly for support. Anyway he brought it up, and my life has been falling apart. I have lashed out at him and told him some facts in a overly direct way. I know it has hurt him because he is sooo sensitive! Anyway he was upset at me so I send him an email tonight and told him i am not going to lash out anymore. He calls me, and we talk, going to see him tomorrow. Bottom like is I didn't want to crawl to him. I want him to see me because he wants to see me... Not because i am forcing him 2! Anyway, he wants me to go to a place for survivors.. Not really happy about that..> I don't open up well, specially if it is a group situation.
Does anyone else have issues with therapists that are the same gender?
Thanks for reading.
~psychmom
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