Posted by B2chica on March 18, 2009, at 12:06:27
In reply to What happened yesterday in session? *triggery*, posted by backseatdriver on March 17, 2009, at 10:47:06
on 14-year old comment.
i just wanted to chime in here and let you know you that i became sexual (non incestuous), well had sex first when i was just barely 15. i was actually trying when i was 14, but the guys we went out with were usually quite older and when they'd either find out my true age or that (i was a first timer) they ran like bunnies.for me, i know now that it was a "this is MY body" issue, for once "I" wanted to choose. WHEN, WHO, WHERE. and i didn't want someone taking it from me. so that was my personal motives regarding age.
However, all bodies are different and some get the hormones that create sexual desire at a much earlier age. i knew one girl that was very sexually active at age 12.
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although i know the issue here is more about how to have dealt with such a reaction from a T. BUT i wanted to comment because i just dont want (your 14-year old) (OR you) to have any lingering feelings of discomfort.b2c.
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