Posted by no_rose_garden on January 19, 2009, at 20:28:58
In reply to Re: telling t how you feel (long!) » movingforward, posted by 10derHeart on January 19, 2009, at 19:43:40
My T knows how I feel about him. I want him to take care of me. I call him all the time just to hear his voice message. He said it's nice to see that somebody's thinking of him and that he can be helpful in that way.
I can hardly get up at the end of session b/c I don't want to leave him :( He said it's hard for him too, especially to see how hard it is for me.
He gave me a rock b/c it's so hard for me to be alone and without him. He usually uses them as some kind of transitional object when ppl are done with therapy. But he gave me one now and he knows I take it with me everwhere and hold it in my hand when I go to bed. He holds it at the end of session and gives it "positive energy" for the week.
I always tell him I miss him, but I don't think i've ever directly told him how I feel about him. I guess I don't relly know yet. I think I just want him to take care of me at this point.
(((T)))
I've heard some T's freak out with strong feelings toward them...and others welcome it and want to work with it. Mine welcomes it. I hope yours does too movingforward :)
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