Posted by rskontos on October 22, 2008, at 17:11:16
In reply to Make a Choice, posted by antigua3 on October 22, 2008, at 13:49:43
If I were at such a point, I would do #2. Number 1 for me is more of the same talk talk talk. Nope that seems like more of the same.
Holding his hand for me would scare the wits out of me, so I like 2. Progress is good. Walking forward is good. It means he will be there to help move it along, involved in the process. #1 for me is the patient, you, doing the work, getting her involved, while #2 just seems like he is making an effort to reach out to her and bring her over as well as you involved because after all, she is you, just a part of you that is holding the pain.
I just like 2. I maybe can't explain it well enough. That is part of how I am progressing these days.
Let us know if you don't mind what you choose.
rsk
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