Posted by Suedehead on October 20, 2008, at 19:15:13
In reply to Now I started the water works......., posted by rskontos on October 20, 2008, at 16:41:18
What you said about wanting to plug your T into your head really struck me. I often have the same thought. He's very patient, very gentle, but I worry that I frustrate him, and feel like I'm failing him every time I evade his questions or refuse to tell him what I'm thinking. Lately he has been encouraging me to write to him. I've not been very good about it, but I did write him one fairly long note a few weeks ago and found that I was able to tell him some things that I'm not sure I'd have been able to tell him otherwise. I'm actually in the middle of writing a second note right now, to give to him on Thursday. Maybe you could send him an email, or give him a letter next time you see him? Try to hang in there. I'm sure that your T understands that opening up is hard work. If he's good, he will be happy to wait for you.