Posted by Nadezda on August 21, 2008, at 15:16:09
In reply to Re: Just trying to help/but I fumbled, posted by wishingstar on August 21, 2008, at 14:53:28
Hey-- both of you-- I didn't feel that either of you screwed up. I guess there was a misunderstanding- as happens sometimes in life-- unfortunately. But if you can work it out, maybe both of you will feel a little more understood and accepted-- I hope.
But do you need to retreat from babble? because, as an outsider, just reading both of your responses, I didn't feel that either of you meant to hurt or reject the other. And what each of you said had substance and value. Maybe, possibly, even though you're both very sensitive to hurting others-- when you really may not have-- and very quick to feel bad in yourselves-- neither of you is or deserves that.
I know it's rough here at times-- but don't you think most of have good hearts and are trying to reach out? -- and that we can rely on that, even if occasionally something miscarries-- or we get carried away-- or misstate-- or overstate-- ?
Anyway, you're voth valued participants, to me, and-- of course-- if you do feel the need for time away from posting-- I would respect that. But I will miss the sense of your presence.
Nadezda
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thread:847533
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